It’s not what you want but it’s what you have to do.
Grooming could be very tough at times. Most image consultants give advice based on what they learned at grooming schools. They were taught on how to look appealing. In laymens term, what other people think about you. It’s how you should dress (according to) all the image consultants (wanna-be) out there! Contrary to popular belief, people are more comfortable wearing “what he/she thinks is (more) appealing to others (housemates, colleagues, office mates and the like).
On the other hand, on most motivational talks, seminars etc, we are bombarded with words like “you are what you think you are”, “trust no one, but yourself” and so on. At the end of the day, we are left in the dark. But, what choice do we have? We have to decide, then, “what we think” is good for ourselves.
In real life (or Shakespeare’s life), we are determined to act foolishly sometime. We lost control without we knowing it. We lost track conditionally. We are literallly no one in certain phase or stage of our life. But, what options do we have? To make life easier, just think and act as what we are asked or instructed to….